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"Particularly during the interactions of parenting and caregiving, we can easily override the preferences of the vulnerable one who is being cared for - whether it’s an infant or young child (or an unwell adult, or an elderly patient in a care situation) - without even consciously realizing what we are doing. 

The need to deliver the care that is necessary to secure the health and safety of a person who is unable to achieve it for themselves is a powerful imperative, but nonetheless we can make some simple shifts in our interactions which can have an immediate and meaningful effect."

"Our beliefs underlie and inform our actions, words, choices and perceptions. Sometimes we are well aware of how our beliefs shape what we perceive and what we choose, and sometimes we are NOT aware of how our beliefs are interacting with and influencing our interpersonal experiences. This is what the word “bias” means. Bias is an inescapable aspect of human existence, and not something to feel ashamed or judge ourselves harshly about, because we cannot help the fact that bias occurs. 

What we CAN do is make a commitment to examine our perceptions and choices, with the intention of becoming more aware so we can understand better how those perceptions and choices are being affected by our unexamined assumptions and beliefs, or biases."

"Connecting with other people is at the heart of healthy human existence. Prior to birth, we are already wired to connect with other people through eye contact, physical touch, and other very powerful experiences, because connection with adults is essential for our survival. 

Experiencing connection with sensitive and responsive adults during infancy is critically important, and has lasting effects for the entire duration of the infant’s lifespan. Infants who miss out on the “connection” dimension of caregiving miss important opportunities that they need in order to develop essential interpersonal and cognitive skills."

This volume has been revised and dramatically expanded from the preview versions that were available at conferences during 2023, based on feedback from conference readers. It also includes a fully cross-referenced index to all of the key terms, showing every page where they appear. 

Professional Reflective Practice is an essential component of professional work in any field, and this volume provides a treasure trove of inspiration and guidance for reflecting on your overall perspective, as well as specific challenges.

Background and cross-referenced content on Rudolf Steiner, Maria Montessori, 

Emmi Pikler, Magda Gerber 

+ Loris Malaguzzi